Dating a shy older man
A lady doesn’t initiate relationships, ask guys out or move in for the first kiss.
But, what if the guy you have your eye on is shy to the bone and just can’t pick up on any of your signals?
I know he's single btw so I'm just going to talk to him next time I get a chance.
Maybe he is coming out of a bad experience or was dumped from a relationship he hasn’t gotten over yet.
They will often scope others out for a while to figure out what makes everyone tick before letting their own guards down.
When it comes to planning dates with someone new, shy people tend to be too passive.
And he doesn't talk to me, he just looks at me everytime he walks past our office which is a couple a times a day if not more.
Today was actually the first time he said "Hi" to me when we were in the lunch room. He is older, I don't want to say his age because I don't even know it exactly but maybe 20 years older than me.